Why I Write: My Story & Purpose
About Mayank Thakur
Mayank Thakur has personally experienced the highs and lows of relationships, navigating through hardships that tested love, trust, and resilience. Instead of letting emotions dictate the outcome, he developed and applied the Theory of Delayed Conclusion—a structured approach to resolving conflicts with patience, logic, and understanding. This philosophy has not only shaped his personal relationships but has also guided him through the challenges of entrepreneurship and leadership in his startups.
Having helped countless individuals and couples rethink their approach to conflict—whether in marriages, workplaces, or personal relationships—Mayank realized that his insights could make a greater impact. He has now dedicated himself to putting all his knowledge into books, making his proven strategies accessible to people around the world. Through his writing, he aims to provide a clear path to resolution, helping individuals pause, reflect, and rebuild stronger connections.
Passionate about strengthening relationships at every level—personal, professional, and even societal—Mayank continues to share his knowledge through his books, speaking engagements, and direct coaching. Whether you are on the verge of giving up or looking to rebuild a stronger foundation, his approach empowers you to make decisions based on clarity and understanding rather than impulsive conclusions.
Framework developed by Mayank- Theory of Delayed Conclusion
Impulsive decisions, especially in high-conflict situations, often lead to regret. The Theory of Delayed Conclusion, developed by Mayank Thakur, provides a structured approach to navigating complex issues with clarity, patience, and logic. These four stages help individuals process conflicts effectively, whether in personal relationships, professional settings, or leadership roles.
1. Establish Undeniable Facts
Before forming any conclusions, separate emotions from reality. Identify unquestionable truths—not assumptions, not perceptions, but concrete facts. This step eliminates misinformation and ensures that all decisions are based on verified reality rather than emotional distortions.
2. Detach and Attach
Once facts are established, take a step back emotionally (detach) to gain a rational perspective. Then, re-engage (attach) with purpose, focusing on the best course of action rather than reacting impulsively. This shift allows for better judgment and clarity in decision-making.
3. Confess and Progress
Honest acknowledgment of past mistakes, biases, or misunderstandings is key to progress. Whether in a personal or professional context, this stage requires individuals to own their role in the situation and make room for real growth. Genuine communication, whether through self-reflection or dialogue with others, leads to resolution and healing.
4. Sustain
A resolution is only as strong as its ability to endure. This stage focuses on maintaining progress by reinforcing trust, consistency, and commitment to the decisions made. Sustainable solutions prevent repetitive conflicts and ensure long-term stability in relationships, businesses, and leadership.
By following these four steps, individuals can avoid emotional misjudgments, resolve conflicts effectively, and build stronger, more meaningful relationships. The Theory of Delayed Conclusion is not about avoiding tough conversations—it’s about handling them with wisdom and lasting impact.
